Clearing Sequence - extra notes


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4) TALKING TO SOMEONE’S REAL SELF

An extra possibility (and alternative) for re-framing is talking to someone’s real self.  This is helpful if communication is currently strained between you and this person, or if you are in your story about how this person has let you down or abandoned you in some way.
Before you start, ask Heavenly Father to assist you in creating communication at some level, in some way between you and this person.  Then ask permission from this person's real self to talk.

Talk directly to this person’s real self (wherever he or she is).  

Note, at this point, that there are different paths you could pursue i.e. ask, “How can I serve you best?”  and/or “Could you tell me what you’re feeling?” (whichever you are inspired to ask) then wait for an answer.  

Talk until you feel you’ve connected. Just hearing the answer to “How can I serve you best?” may be all you need.  The answer to this question is always there. It just takes you listening for it.

These spirit to spirit communications are a time for you to fully open yourself to the possibility of love between you and this person (your love for him or her and his or her love for you).  

“And now here is my secret (said the fox to the little prince), a very simple secret: It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.”


To see love, to hear love, to connect to the love, despite whatever is clouding it or disguising it- this is the secret.  In a sense, what you decide to see is what is real- nothing else.

Note: When Reframing (connecting to the hidden message of love) sometimes the person you're talking to is you.  If you are seeking to breakthrough from excessive worry about one of your children for instance, sometimes the obvious hidden message of love is just how deep your love truly is for this child.

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