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Homework Assignments (usually drawn from our standard Homework

1) Listen to DAVID ALLEN.  Click here and scroll down.

2) Gratitude journal about Jinny, at least 1 thing a day.

3) Practice breakthrough, identifying as many “subject lines” as you can i.e. (angry at Jinny, hopeless about Jinny)

4) Visit every boundaryless moment.  (It’s in the standard Homework) 5 to 25


Extra Homework

5) Read “Boundaries” in the Standard Homework


TOP 10 - Personal Agreements



Background

Daughter, Jinny, is struggling

 

Notes

What you want is worth walking the path that leads to it.

Enrollment and Clarification make people feel safe.

"I want to share somethings.  Can I speak freely?"

"I want to get clear on what you would feel best about when it comes to how I can bless you?" etc. "Is it alright with you to ask you how you're doing?  what your challenges are?  what I can do?"

Keep doing this and at the same hold a space for possibility for Jinny's healing.

Enrollment and Clarification make people feel safe.

"I want to share somethings.  Can I speak freely?"

"I want to get clear on what you would feel best about when it comes to how I can bless you?" etc.

"Is it alright with you to ask you how you're doing?  what your challenges are?  what I can do?"


Keep doing this and at the same hold a space for possibility for your daughter's healing

Enrollment creates safety

Instead of being controlling I'm going to be enrolling.

 

 

Trudie's Formula

1) “We are walking a fine line on this. On one side are those who are reckless, impulsive, and hasty in making a marriage choice.  On the other side there are those who are so careful and serious about the marriage decision that they can’t function because they feel overwhelmed by the enormity, weight and finality of this decision.  It’s difficult for them to see themselves ever making this decision." - Ben Knowlton

2) The other aspect of your formula for choosing a man is knowing that your antenna is pre set for disaster.  You must give men that you are not initially interested in a chance.

3) What goes hand in hand with #1 and #2 is the importance of fully taking advantage of the internet to meet men at firesides or at John Canaan events like "Dating and the Universe."

3) Be really honest with yourself about matching the level of your mutual commitment with the level of your involvement.